I don't need you to spoon feed me code, but I thought it would nice and simple enough for a experienced Java programmer to give me tidbits of advice or code to point me in the right direction, instead of throwing links at me. If you are to lazy to help me, do not waste my time or yours by copying and pasting a webpage address.
Your question as stated is a bit unanswerable. You've described some of your goal, but not what's preventing you from getting to that goal. There are a million different ways to do something in programming, and you could be confused about a million different things. It's hard to answer "how do I do this" type questions other than to point you to google and to ask specifically what you're confused about.
Your "question" is a bit like you saying "I want to get to New York. The issue I'm having is getting my car there." That's not enough information for somebody to help you- where are you leaving from? Are you experiencing car trouble? Is there an accident or road work blocking your way? We simply asked you for more detail so we can help you, but if that's not good enough for you, I wish you luck and will add you to my ignore list so as not to waste your time.
I leave you with one more pasted webpage address, hopefully it is of some help to you: How to Program (stuck on homework? READ THIS BEFORE POSTING)